Saturday, January 1

Best and Worst 2010 and Tentative Resolutions

A quick review of my personal Bests and Worsts from the past year:

Best
  • Two trips to Disneyland - one in April and one in December
  • Two cruises to the Western Caribbean during winter months - one in January and one with my family in December
  • Five plays - Kiss Me Kate, The Secret Garden, Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat, and the 1940s Radio Hour
  • Dream role of a lifetime, in a production where everything miraculously came together - Milly in Seven Brides. I really don't know if any other theatre experience can ever top that one.
  • An extraordinary best friend - you know who you are! I don't know what I'd do without you, dearest!
  • A new sister-in-law who completely rocks
  • Two great new jobs - a temp job and then a permanent one
  • Able to touch my toes for the first time in memory... which I cannot do, again, at the moment, but will get back to lickety-split now that I'm recovering from my latest illness!
Worst
  • Laid off from a job after over three years
  • Sprained wrist persisted for 6 months
  • Sick at least 4 months total
  • My bathroom scale reports I weigh more than I ever have, including my mission
  • The highest number of dates I had with any given guy this year was two.
Except for the first and last items on the "Worst" list, I was grasping at straws a bit there. This really has been a terrific year. I learned a lot about myself while achieving a lot of goals, realizing some of my out-of-reach dreams, forging, growing, and maintaining terrific relationships with family and friends, and I was blessed far more than I could have hoped. I realize that I live a charmed life in many ways. Heavenly Father answered all of my prayers -- usually not in the manner I was expecting and thought I wanted -- but He answered them all and I am very grateful.

Meanwhile, I still have a lot to learn, and more that I want for myself. With that in mind, I have several improvement efforts I'm pondering for 2011:
  • Start fleshing out some of my creative writing ideas.
  • I kind of want a dog... but due to HOA restrictions I'd have to move first. Maybe I should improv my human-canine relations by playing with dogs more and getting used to them slobbering on me (ew).
  • Be less "nice" professionally. I get walked on a lot because I don't want to step on toes. How ironic is that?
  • Finish the hookups to and buy a washer and dryer for my condo. Two and-a-half years of dragging my laundry to my mom's house are more than enough.
  • A stamp in my passport for Scotland, and possibly some other locations.
  • Some hard-core, somehow-still-be-myself flirting with the opposite sex that leads to more than two dates with the same guy...preferably a guy I'm interested in.
  • Take a tap class and a Zumba class... and maybe ballet.
  • Voice lessons? 
  • Attend a session at an LDS Temple at least once a month EVERY month.
  • Read more than one non-fiction book this year, not including the Book of Mormon which I'll be reading every day anyway.
So, 2011, good luck living up to 2010. Somehow, I think you can do it! Can't wait to see what this year brings to me, and what I bring to it!

Happy New Year, my darling friends!

4 comments:

Stephanie said...

This is so motivating and great! Best wishes on a wonderful new year. :)

Zanny said...

Wow, I love this post! I feel so uplifted. I just think you are fabulous!

Elisha said...

You can come practice your human-canine skills with my new dog. She's pretty darn cute!! And then we'd get some sister time

Rach said...

Patti, Sarah, and I started taking the Open Level Tap class at Stephanie M.'s studio (they are still taking it, I am on break due to my present condition . . .) It is a ton of fun, and I plan on returning to it in the summer. I think you would love it, too, and I know we would love to have you in the class!!! Also, Zumba rocks. Enough said.