Wednesday, September 15

Goodnight, my someone...

No man is perfect, just like no girl is perfect. Whenever cynical people try to commisserate to me that there are no more good men in the world, I remind myself of all of the good men I know-- married and unmarried-- and I hope that someday I can find one who wants to spend his life with me (a not-currently-married one, of course).

A friend forwarded me this thought, and since I in my romantic-realist-hopeful state of mind love it, I want to share:

When a Girl is Quiet

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how
long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers 'I'm fine' after a few seconds ... she is not at all
fine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says 'I love you' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says 'I miss you' .... no one in this world can miss you more than
that.

Life only comes around once; make sure you spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
who calls you back when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who ... kisses
your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, 'That's her!!'

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel..."


Thank you to all of the good men in my life for reminding me that I deserve to be treated with love and respect! I hope to share my life with a man like you someday.

Thank you to the loving, supportive couples I see everyday that remind me that the hard work of dating and the hard work of marriage are totally worth the benefits. I hope to be just like you someday!

Goodnight, my someone...

*Hopeful*

1 comment:

Rach said...

I also hate when I hear women say there are no good guys in the world. What a pessimistic view of things. Way to stay positive!!!

*Virtual Hug*